Greetings Friends~
Breaking News....since I have heard whispers behind my back (and to my face also) about my baggy britches, I made a quick stop today to see if I could find some new pants. Bear in mind that as a chubster, clothes shopping is nothing less than humiliating. Not today. I started this journey wearing pants in a size 46 waist. That is the biggest that you can find at a regular store like Shopko or Target`. When I started, I was worried that if I got any fatter, I'd have to go to Fat Albert's Big (read fat) and Tall Store. I was stuffing a 50" waist...I am ashamed to say...into those size 46's. Hell, I even went online to see if I could find a pants stretcher in order to avoid the Fatman's store. I am happy to tell you that I am now the proud owner, of two pairs. of size 42 waist pants. Even better, I didn't have to suck in my breath in order to get them buttoned. (Crap, I hope they don't shrink. Mrs B loves to shrink my clothes). Kudo's to me!
Well, the holiday chaos continues. I hope that you are faring well. I am exhausted but sad that it is almost over. I have completed almost all of my projects and shopping...almost but not all. I have stocking stuffers to get yet.
The following is an email that I received from Sally, who is a follower, and very supportive of our cause. I hope you enjoy it and find it as helpful as I did. Here are some of that fit lady's tips for staying on the thin side of life.
"You’ve been busy and haven’t had time to work out. When that happens to me, the “non-work out” period frequently stretches to 1 – 2 or 3 months with the related weight gain. I relate to how hard it is to work out or go to the gym, especially if I’ve not been there in a while. I’ll share some of my tricks on myself to get back on track. You probably know all these, but I’m kind of like you. It helps me to stay on track if I share my goals and means to get there. Thanks for listening.
Think small.
· Overwhelming: I don’t have time to change, get to the gym, do all the stuff I should, drive back home, change, etc. That’s 2-3 hours….maybe tomorrow instead; or next week or maybe January when life is easier – yeah right.
· Doable: It takes me 15 minutes in my pj’s in the morning on the living room rug in front of the TV to do my ab exercises. I do these without fail (usually) while I get a quick look at the news and weather. (I’m sending you the ones I do.)
· Doable: It takes 30 minutes in my pj’s in front of the news to do my upper body free weights Monday, Wednesday and Friday. (I’ll send you these too)
· Doable: 40 minutes on my treadmill after work (not after dinner-won’t happen) while watching a DVD with an episode of an old Boston Legal in front of me. I buy seasons of shows I like and only watch them on the treadmill. I tell myself I only have to walk, but always end up alternating running and walking.
It’s not a work out (boring and easy to procrastinate); it’s working toward my current (ever changing) goal. Sometimes working out has a totally different purpose for me.
· Overwhelming: I have to work out again – see above – driving, changing, etc.
· Doable: I’ve done my upper body free weights for a week now and am ready to increase the weight a little-that’s exciting. I want to increase the weight and see a little more tone in my biceps
· Doable: I have some new exercises in my new magazine and want to try them. The old exercises aren’t working so much anymore.
· Doable: I really need to see the next episode of my show so I’ll climb on that ol’ treadmill
· Doable: I love how it looks when I drive by and see a fit woman running. I realize I look cool like that when I’m out there running or even walking at a brisk pace. (Ok, maybe I don’t look as cool as that 20 year old –this is MY fantasy so shut up!) I can go out and look cool for 30 minutes.
· Doable: I don’t feel like running, but it’s spring and I’ll run through the old Capitol neighborhood and look at the blooming flowers. Or, it’s fall and I’ll run around Capitol Lake and look at the glorious changing leaves. Or it’s summer and I like how tanned my arms and legs get on a 45 minute run.
· Doable: I have a new album loaded on my IPod and I really want to learn the songs so I’ll run or get on the treadmill to listen.
I need a major shake-up of my brain. Everything stops working after a while. I kept track of my food and exercise on my cell phone since 2004 and it was very effective for me. But, I started gaining weight in the last 4 months. I figured out, I wasn’t really paying attention anymore and was cheating on portions, etc. I tossed the software and changed how I pay attention now.
· My lunch is almost always Lean Cuisine. That’s easy, calorie controlled and works. Restaurants and dinner cause more problems; especially if it tastes good. My new thing is portion control. I stop tasting it after 6 bites anyway, so I use your trick of putting half (or more) in the "to go" box before I start eating. If I don’t see it on plate, I’m better at stopping when the initial wonderful taste dulls.
· I don’t count calories and fat as much as fiber. If I take away something like calories, I feel deprived. My goal instead is to get the most fiber I can during the day. Of course, high fiber foods are usually low calorie and filling so it doesn’t leave as much craving for those bad things. When I want a snack I try to eat high fiber crackers with peanut butter or a piece of fruit. Of course portion control is there – I’ll have 6 high fiber Wheat Thins with peanut butter. It stops the hunger, gives me lots of fiber and is good for me.
· On the way home from work, I eat a banana or apple or crackers in the car so my stomach catches up and I’m not starving when I get home.
· If I’m out of control and going to eat something bad, again, I go for portion control. I’ve been known to buy chocolate chip cookie dough to eat it raw. I let myself, but break off 4 to eat and put the rest directly into the garbage outside. I know; very wasteful, but I get my sugar fix without losing control. The same works for chips – I either buy the small bag or else take out the amount I’m going to eat and throw the rest away.
· I’m never allowed to eat out of the bag, box or dish. I put what I’m going to eat into a dish and put the rest away. If I’m going to eat crackers and the box says 6 crackers are 120 calories and 6 grams of fiber, then that’s what I take out of the box and eat. If I eat out of the box, I’ll end up eating half the box…bad. I guess the lesson is making myself pay attention and decide to eat 6 crackers; not pretending I don’t notice I just ate 1100 calories."
Thanks Sally, there is a lot of great material in there (and I'm not talking about my old pair of pants either).
Inspiration of the Day
Adventure is not outside a man. It is within. -
David Grayson
Recipe of the Day
Eating fish three times a week has been proven to have great health benefits. Unfortunately, I'm not much on fish so when I find a delicious looking and sounding recipe, I just have to share.
http://www.recipezaar.com/Miso-Glazed-Salmon-117372
Only 1 more shopping day until Christmas. If there is a man in your life, please let him know this, because it's our favorite shopping day of the holiday season. Less choices to confuse us and normal people are already at home watching that kid shoot his eye out.
Don't forget to eat sanely today for we never know what calories tomorrow may bring. If you have to take a dish to dinner, find a healthy alternative and demonstrate to everyone your new found self control with One Step at a Time. Small steps can lead to major accomplishments.
Happy Trails!